Exploring sex without intercourse

I recently tried a sample of this great product from the www.moystoys.com website...

This is wonderful...so i wanted to let everyone know...

Massage Candle - Dreamsicle
BRAND: Earthly Body
SKU: EB001
Price: $8.00

These massage candles are great! not only did it set the mood..but it smells wonderful... and they come in many different scents that just make you want to nibble on your partner (i don't think this brand is edible though)but great deal for $8.00 bucks...

We let the candle burn for about 5 to ten mins or so before using...
Once the the candle is warmed up the wax turns into a seriously yummy smelling massage oil...don't be afraid to pour it right on your partner...it feels just like nice warm oil and wont burn you at all...trust me...i was a bit cautious at first having it poured on me...but i was very pleasantly surprised! it does not come out waxy at all...just oil....each candle comes with a mini spoon for pouring and play...and the oil has a really nice silky feel to it..it left my skin feeling really soft and sweet....so far we have gotten about 4 uses out of it and it isn't even half gone..

So seriously everyone this is a really, really.. great foreplay product....

So to continue on that note i wanted to discuss "sex before/without intercourse" a.k.a"Heavy petting"or "foreplay".

Sometimes there just isn't time... and hey quickies are so hot...I love to just be bent over and fucked real good 'n' quick before bed...or to just wake up and have hard cock dribbling in my mouth before i have even had my eggs...
But when there is a bit of extra time...
The tease can be just as good as the actual event...and that my friends is worth exploring...

"foreplay is a set of intimate psychological and physical acts between two or more people meant to create and increase sexual arousal in anticipation of sexual intercourse.

Foreplay can become increasingly physical and intense as the couple moves closer to intercourse. It reaches its peak in the moments just before intercourse, when it induces a strong mutual desire for penetration. Technically, foreplay ends with the beginning of intercourse.

In practical terms, however, the continuity between foreplay and intercourse may be very great, since the couple may continue foreplay like behavior during intercourse."

So when there is time... a bit of foreplay can make sex way more intense...
There are so many tools that you can use to enjoy the ride..like candles, oils, music, sexy lingerie and more...

Here are a few more cheap items i recommend to try..


Touch Of Honey Passion Berry
BRAND: Kingman Industries, Inc
SKU: KI1011
Price: $4.98
This a body dust...i love my nipples licked...and this helps keep him there longer...
i turn into a tasty treat!

Lust Card Game
BRAND: Kheper Games, Inc.
SKU: VBGC52
Price: $4.00
Lust is a game that allows you to explore both romantic and physical intimacy with your partner.
There is always something new to discover!


* Remember sex is really more mental then physical (which is why the human body can can have an orgasm in during sleep)...

The best foreplay is not the touching/licking/kissing but the "mind fuck"...
The words or even just the noises you make can be the best tool of all...

Talking dirty...or even talking sweet (depending on the mood ) can really take it up a notch..
Its worth a try.....

Jordan Night

Did you know?

Did you know?...about all of the benefits of sex!!!

-Sex has been claimed to produce health benefits as varied as improved sense of smell, weight loss, stress reduction, increased immunity, and decreased rick on prostate cancer!

-Frequent sexual intercourse can be held to reduce the risk of the common cold... scientists linked frequent sexual intercourse (once or twice a week) to increased production of the antibody called Immunoglobulin A or IgA, which can protect the body from getting colds and other infections!

-"Boosting self-esteem" was one of 237 reasons people have sex, collected by researchers and published in the journal Archives of Sexual Behavior. Some subjects who already had high self-esteem said they sometimes have sex to "feel even better"!

-"Sex is a great mode of exercise," according to Patti Britton currently the host of website "Your Sex Coach" notes that thirty minutes of sex burns 85 calories or more. She concludes that 42 half-hour sessions, or 21 hour-long sessions, will burn 3,570 calories - sufficient to lose one pound!

-Sexual intimacy, as well as orgasms, increases levels of the hormone Oxytocin also known as "the love hormone" which helps people bond and build trust!

-Men who have frequent ejaculations, especially men in their 20s, may reduce their risks of prostate cancer later in life. Researchers followed men diagnosed with prostate cancer and those without. They found no association of prostate cancer with the number of sexual partners as the men reached their 30s, 40s, and 50s, but men who had five or more ejaculations weekly while in their 20s reduced their risk of getting prostate cancer later by a third. Another study, "found that frequent ejaculations, 21 or more a month, were linked to lower prostate cancer risk in older men, as well, compared with less frequent ejaculations of four to seven monthly"!

-During sex, pelvic floor muscle exercises known as Kegels offer benefits for women. More sexual pleasure is expected to result, strengthening of the area, and help to minimize the risk of incontinence later in life!

So how great it that??...Oh and did i forget to mention that it feels good?....

I think i am gonna take a little time today to work on my heath if you know what i mean...

This information came from: Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

Thanks again for reading!
~Jordan Night

"Euphoria"

Euphoria," in a non-medical sense, means a feeling of great happiness or well-being. When a person is euphoric because of' happy or exciting life events, it is a wonderful state of mind."

Also Known As: exhilaration, elation, joyfulness

Satisfaction," the contentment one feels when one has fulfilled a desire, need, or expectation; comes from fulfilling a desire or need or appetite.

-The taste of a Mexican burrito gives me satisfaction.
-The smell of a dirty shirt worn by a man i enjoy gives me satisfaction.
-The feeling i have after having fucking great sex gives me satisfaction.
-The sound of Norah Jones last album gives me much satisfaction.
-The sight of my dog Manny's happy face at the end of a long day gives me satisfaction.

There are a lot of things that keep me satisfied...and most are not hard to achieve...
But when i get to experience them all in one day (a tickle of ALL the senses) it becomes almost euphoric... (a grinning from ear to ear moment)
Kinda like taking a hit of ecstasy...but without the unpleasant "Etarded" hangover.

I feel like so many of us deny ourselves satisfaction everyday...waiting around for someone else to supply that satisfaction for us....and you don't have to!....if you don't have a man/woman to help out why wait?

-eat something delicious
-smell something wonderful
-buy yourself a big dildo/pocket pussy and use it all day
-listen to your favorite album
-surround yourself with pleasant visuals


Use all of your senses to satisfy...and experience that moment of ultimate satisfaction...
"Euphoria"


For help finding all the treats you many need for a lover or for yourself..
Go to: www.moystoys.com

"Letting Go"

I Did a bit of research today for you all....just because i care....

I picked up these tips from Dr.Phil (he knows his stuff)..So pay attention both Gals/guys because it really important to understand the way your mind and body can relate to each other...and how its effecting your sex life.

"Research shows that 90 percent of the problems women have in achieving orgasm stem from a psychological nature....and that's good news because it can be overcome!

TIPS FOR THE LADIES

If you can achieve an orgasm alone, but not with a partner, you may have performance anxiety.

Being anxious, worried or feeling pressured to have an orgasm with your partner can work against you. Anxiety is an arousal response — it can cause tension. An orgasm is a relaxation response. Those two are incompatible.

If you're wondering, "Am I doing this right? Is he judging me? Is he having fun? Does he like this?" during intercourse, the anxiety can take you away from your pleasure.

TIPS FOR THE MEN

Fifty to 75 percent of women who have orgasms need clitoral stimulation and are unable to have an orgasm through intercourse alone.

Even for women who do orgasm through vaginal intercourse alone, most still need the right position to provide clitoral stimulation.

Bring the woman very close to an orgasm before you actually engage in intercourse, so she has a better chance to have an orgasm once it begins.

-- Understanding the Female Orgasm, Al Cooper, Ph.D., Sex Therapist, July 2003."

There are also some really great tricks of the trade that seem to work for most women...

*Set the mood (dim the lights, play music, get comfortable)
Studies show music can increase the comfort level between partners.

*Focus on the foreplay..kissing..touching..dirty talk.
(Female bodies are wired differently from men...even though mentally she might want it bad...her body just might not be prepared for it yet.)

*Try a mini vibe on the clit before or during sex, experimenting with toys can be fun!

For a wonderful selection try:
www.moystoys.com


Alright so now that we know a bit of the facts.....

Its really important to be understanding...get to know the way your lovers body works...
Help her to do away with the insecurities...help her to relax and enjoy and just start "letting go"...


Hope this helps for all who may need it!
Jordan Night