Do you have a sexual fetish?

Everyone has their own little fetishes...yet some have more than others...

Do you know what your fetish's are?

(I was surprised to learn that i enjoy at least more then 10 of the fetish's listed below!)

For all of you who are just a little bit or alot curious about fetish's, fantasies, and role play there are a bunch of sites on the web where you are free to explore all the options...

Here is a site that i found that offers some good information on the subject:
www.bebadentertainment.com

What is sexual fetish?

A "sexual fetish" is a sexual response to something that is not usually considered sexual in and of itself, like red vinyl, cigarette smoke, boots, etc. Fetish sex is not "normal" sex. It is a sexual act of the particular fixation (turn on).

Here are some terms and definitions from the fetish "language" to help you explore.

FETISH 101

TERMS & DEFINITIONS FROM THE FETISH LIFESTYLE

BDSM: Represents Bondage, Discipline, and Sado-Masochism (also related, Dominance & Submission = DS). It is a form of sexual fantasy play between consenting adults often involving fetishes, focusing on mental, sensual and erotic experience over the standard sexual intercourse, and requiring a great level emotional trust and communication between partners. BDSM does not have anything to do with using pain or force on someone who is an unwilling victim.

A FEW TYPES OF FETISHES:

Acrotomophilia

The person is sexually aroused by the sight of an amputation usually of a whole arm or leg.

Adolescentilism

The person is aroused by impersonating both the dress and behavior of an adolescent.

Andromimetophilia

A woman who is sexually aroused by impersonating a man. They purposefully look like and act like a man.

Apotemnophilia

This person is sexually aroused by having a part of their body amputated either by themselves or someone else. The memory of the amputation can serve to arouse them for years. It is the act of having an extremity amputated that is arousing; thus, they have to be awake during the process.

Biastophilia

In this paraphilia the person is sexually aroused by the idea of being raped. This is scripted and planned out ahead of time with a partner. The person does not actually want to be raped by a strange.

Chrematistophilia

This person can only become sexually aroused if they are being blackmailed into it.

Gerontophilia

The person is only sexually aroused by a significantly older person. There has to be at least a 15 year difference between their ages.

Gynemimetophilia

A person who is sexually aroused by a female impersonator.

Hybristophilia

Sexual relations with a convicted criminal.

Hyphephilia

Touching or rubbing a human or non-human object is essential for achieving sexual arousal.

Infantilism

Dressing as an infant and acting the role of a child under two years old is sexually arousing. This can include some or all body hair and the hiring of a nurse or nanny to take care of you.

Kleptophilia

Similar to kleptomania, kleptophilia results in sexual arousal from stealing not just thrill seeking.

Mixophilia

The person likes to watch their partner or themselves engage in sexual activity. Usually this means watching themselves in a mirror.

Morphophilia

Peculiar body shapes and sizes are sexually arousing such as heavy, short, dwarfism, etc.

Mysophilia

The person is sexually aroused by dirt, mud, or filth.

Narratophilia

Telling dirty stories is sexually arousing.

Olfactophilia

The person is sexually aroused by body smells. Usually inserting finger anus, vagina, etc. and smelling it during sex.

Pictohilia

Watching X-rated films is sexually arousing.

Somnophilia

The person can only maintain sexual arousal while having sex with someone who is sleeping. If the person wakes up they lose interest.

Stigmatophilia

Body piercing and tattooing but not ear piercing is sexually arousing.

Telephonicophilia

Talking dirty on the phone or being talked to lewdly.

Urophilia

Being urinated on or urinating on someone. Golden showers

Zoophilia

The person wants to be treated like an animal wearing a collar and even eating out of an animal dish. This is different from bestiality in which the person wants to have sex with an animal.

BDSM TERMS & DEFINITIONS in fetish play

AGE PLAY
Role-playing the persona of someone substantially younger (or sometimes older) than your actual age.

BONDAGE
Physical materials - bondage gear applied to a submissive or slave to restrain their ability to move and/or to otherwise restrict them. Also, the act of placing the submissive or slave in such materials.

BOTTOM
A slang term for a submissive and/or masochist. Many people use the word "bottom" to mean specifically someone who enjoys being given various sensations, as opposed to a "submissive", which enjoys being controlled.

BOTTOM SPACE
The psychological "head space" or attitude of being submissive.

BOY
A submissive (often, but not always, male) who relates to their dominant in a child-to parent mode. More common among gay men and lesbians.

BRAT
A submissive enjoys rebelling in a childlike way against their dominant. Brats are fairly common in the spanking scene. The use of sex paddles &  sex floggers are common.

CONSENSUAL
An activity done with the consent of adults competent to give that consent. One of the central features of SM play.

COUNTING GAMES
Rituals engaged in during whipping, flogging, spanking, or during other forms of flagellation, in which the submissive (or slave) is required to keep count if the number of strokes delivered, often thanking the Master after each one and asking for more. Example: "That’s five, Sir. Thank you Sir, Sir, please may I have another, Sir?"

DADDY/MOMMY
A dominant (usually, but not always, male) who has a submissive "boy" and who relates to that submissive in a parent/child mode. More common among gay men and lesbians, but gaining currency among heterosexuals and bisexuals as well.

DISCIPLINE
Training by a Master in how they wish their submissive or slave to behave. Also, the punishment and correction administered by the Master when the submissive fails to act in the proper manner.

DOMINANT
One who enjoys taking control One who decides what happens and when. A dominant may or may not be sadistic.

FLAGELLATION
The general act of one person striking another, usually in an erotic context. Includes spanking, paddling, flogging and whipping. (using sex paddles, sex whips, etc.)

FLOGGER
A multi-tailed whip in which the tails are long, flat strips of leather or a similarly flexible material.

HUMILIATION
Activities which cause the submissive to feel shame, embarrassment, or degradation. Varies widely from person to person. Possibly psychologically explosive...

MASTER/DOMINA
A term for a dominant. Often used as a term of address. It is often considered somewhat rude to address one by this term without being first given permission to do so.

RELATIONSHIP- Dominate-slave
An ongoing SM relationship in which the slave is submissive to a dominant.

MONDAY MORNING REBOUND SYNDROME
Feelings of remorse, disgust, fear, and so forth that emerge hours or days after a person willingly, and often lustily, takes part in SM play.

MUMMIFICATION
Immobilizing bondage, usually done by wrapping the submissive in many coils of materials such as plastic wrap, or by placing the submissive in a body bag designed for this purpose.

NOVICE
A person just beginning to learn about and explore SM. Often treated with special kindness and attention by the more experienced members of the community or by the MASTER.

SADIST
As loosely defined with the SM Community, a person who specifically enjoys administering pain. A person may be dominant without being sadistic. It's also possible to be sadistic without being dominant.

SADOMASOCHISM
A rather vague term referring generally to fantasies and experiences regarding the introduction of domination, submission, bondage, sadism, masochism, humiliation, and related activities into erotic play.

SAFE WORD
A specific word or other signal used, by prior agreement, to indicate that things are "really" becoming too intense for the person. Usually used by the submissive or slave, but may also be used by the dominant. "Safe word" itself is sometimes used at SM parties to signal a desire for outside intervention.

SLAVE
A person who has an on-going, structured relationship with a dominant or Master. One who assumes the submissive role, often in a highly developed and committed way to a particular person. Saying someone is "my slave" generally indicates a relatively sophisticated, ongoing relationship between the two of you.

SUBMISSIVE
One who has no control One that obeys orders and may permit themselves to be bound if doing so pleases their dominant or Master.

TOP'S DISEASE
An unwarranted attitude of superiority taken by a dominant. Believing that bottoms are somehow inferior and treating them so in either obvious or subtle ways. Usually a sign of insecurity or ignorance. Dominants who suffer from Top's Disease often (surprise, surprise) complain about how hard it is to find people willing to play with them. A mirror image of this syndrome is called Bottom's Disease.

TWO SQUEEZES
A "squeeze signal" between players used to non-verbally signal that, "I'm all right."

WORSHIP
To adore the personage of the dominant. Often combined with performing some service to the dominant's body such as massaging, kissing, or licking their feet or boots, massaging their body with massage oils, bathing them. Explicitly sexual activity, such as performing oral sex on the dominant, may or may not be a part of such play.

CUCKOLD
This term used to refer to a cheating wife. Now the man is a cuckolder – or “cuck” if he gets off on watching his wife or partner have sex with other men while he assumes a submissive role as part of the fantasy. The female is called a hot wife.


These are only a few..

If you choose to explore any of these options as a beginner or professional, please always use safety and have a consensual partner!

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Your naughty gal,
Jordan Night

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